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Salaries for doctors are declining, with my boyfriend telling me that some nurses now make more than the lowest paid medical specialty - pediatrics. He usually doesn't have time during shifts to grab food, and after shifts, he comes home and crashes. At the end of the day, nothing I say or do can help him see this. A Mormon wife will also want to bring the kids along, and that should be discussed and decided before marriage and before kids.
Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. Love does a lot. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense.